The Art of Giving Gracefully
Stop guessing. Our algorithm calculates the perfect wedding gift amount based on etiquette, your relationship, and real-world data.
The Hardest Question in Wedding Season
"How much should I give?" Every wedding is different. Your relationship, the venue, your budget, regional customs — it all matters. GuestMath does the math so you don't have to guess.
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Built on Real Etiquette Standards
Research-Backed
Our algorithm is built on wedding etiquette guidelines, regional data, and actual gift trends from real weddings.
Always Updated
Our formula reflects current economic conditions and 2026 standards. What was right in 2020 isn't right today.
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We don't store your answers, create accounts, or track you. Calculate as many times as you need, completely free.
No Judgment
Whether your budget is $50 or $500, we help you give an appropriate amount. It's about the thought, not the price tag.
Three Steps to the Perfect Gift
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Answer quick questions about your relationship to the couple, the venue type, and location.
Get Your Range
Our algorithm calculates a personalized gift range based on etiquette standards and real data.
Give With Confidence
No more second-guessing. No awkward moments. Just the right gift, every time.
Real Scenarios, Real Results
Close Friend's Luxury Wedding
Your best friend is getting married at an upscale venue in Manhattan. You're attending with your spouse.
Coworker's Backyard Wedding
A colleague is having an intimate backyard celebration in Texas. You're attending solo.
Cousin's Destination Wedding
Your cousin is having a destination wedding in Mexico. You can't attend but want to send a gift.
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The Safe Gift List
The 2026 Wedding Gift Guide
Everything you need to know about wedding gift etiquette this year. From cash vs. registry to destination wedding rules.
Read the Guide →Wedding Gift FAQ
The amount varies based on your relationship to the couple, the wedding venue, location, and whether you're attending. Close friends and family typically give $150-300, while coworkers usually give $75-150.
Yes, traditionally the gift should help cover your "plate cost." A luxury hotel wedding costs more per guest than a backyard celebration.
Give what you can comfortably afford. A heartfelt gift within your budget is always better than going into debt.
Absolutely! Cash and checks are widely accepted and often preferred by couples.
Yes, increase your gift by 50-75% when bringing a plus-one to cover two people.
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